OK, we are onto the last principle now. We have briefly covered this in all the modules previously, but that is because it is so important. A shared vision with a sense of meaning is going to keep you going in the right direction, even when you are in a midst of a conflict. It …
This is about learning to let go of your position and be focused on resolving or managing the conflict, principle 6 is tied in very closely with Principle 5. The Two Keys to all conflict resolution!Communicate basic acceptance of your partner’s personalityBefore you ask your partner to change, you must make them feel that they …
FDM4L10E. Rule 6- Kissing make up / Дүрэм 6. Үргэлж үнсэж эвлэр Read More »
This is probably the first time you have been introduced to this concept or principle, so take your time to think it through a bit and apply it to your situation. Solvable issues are ones where, with effort, you can resolve and find a solution, however just because it is a solvable problem it can still …
Just by putting the word ‘constructive’ in front of the world criticism doesn’t make it any less harmful and negative. All criticism is personal, constructive criticism is just putting a sugar coating on a bitter pill. It wears away at your love and eventually there is nothing less, a bit like a rock worn down …
FDM4L08E. Rule 4- Do not criticize / Дүрэм 4. Шүүмжлэлээр сайжруулдаггүй Read More »
When we hear Equality, most of us think of the equality or lack of, for women in both the workplace and the home. Gender and ethnic equality still has a long way to go, especially in Mongolia, but it IS happening at the global level, so it is important that it should happen at the …
FDM4L07E. Rule 3- Equality and Uniquie/ Дүрэм 3. Эрх тэгш хамтрагчид, ялгаатай хүмүүс Read More »
This principle really focuses on each other. Sadly over time with all the stresses, money worries and the need to take care of family, we forget to nurture and feed both our partner and our wider relationships. Last week we were introduced to the work of John Gottman, especially the four negatives that destroy relationships. …
FDM4L06E. rule 2- Taking care of each other/ Дүрэм 2. Харилцаагаа халамжлан тэтгэх нь Read More »
Decades of research indicates that children who have parents who take the time to be there for them experience the following: Greater self-confidence and self-esteem Able to bounce back quickly after challenges & adversity Willingness to learn and explore Social skills Emotional regulation Greater sense of achievement and gratitude Know who they are Putting it …
Our children need us to simply ‘be there’ and to love them no matter what (Emotional Availability)They need us to be presentChildren need to be understood & see the world through their eyesThey need us to provide them with challenges but also be there to support themThey need us to be role models and leadersThey …
FDM4L03E. what children need from parents/ Хүүхэд эцэг, эхээсээ юу хүсдэг вэ? Read More »
The farther you go, the better you understand your financial motivations, and the more powerfully you are inspired to follow through with the rest of the steps necessary to create and implement a values based financial plan. Now you can really focus on the tangible goals that require money and planning to achieve. Meeting your …
FDM4L01E. Value based finances/ Үнэт зүйлс дээр суурилсан санхүүгийн шат Read More »